Why Do Manipulators and Narcissists Seem Drawn to You?
Why Do Manipulators and Narcissists Seem Drawn to You? By Violette Blue, 23.12.2005 Ever wonder why some people—manipulators, narcissists, haters, jealous folks—gravitate toward you even when you haven’t done anything to invite them? It’s like they have some secret radar for kindness, openness, or vulnerability. The truth is, untrustworthy people often seek advantage over others, and while they may appear friendly, their sly intentions leak through subtle hints if you pay attention. Let’s break down the reasons why you might attract these energy-draining people, and how to spot the red flags early so you can guard your peace. 1. The Friendly Light That Shines Too Bright You’re naturally warm, approachable, and you smile easily. That’s a beautiful, rare quality. But manipulators and narcissists zero in on this friendly glow. They see your kindness as an unlocked door, an invitation to come in and take what they want. Being genuinely open-hearted can sometimes feel like handing the reins...